Flirting is a basic instinct, part of a human nature. It is a universal and essential aspect of human interaction. We see flirting as a fun thing; a man flirts with a woman in order to attract her and hopefully, eventually, to ask her on a date.
There are two reasons why people flirt. Guys who are flirting for fun do this because they might spot a beautiful woman and flirt with her, in order to get her attention and have fun with her with no intention of starting a relationship. The others, who flirt with intent, are more selective and want to meet someone for a possible relationship.
The best places to flirt are obviously parties, bars, clubs, and even at the workplace. The first key to successful flirting is not an ability to show off and impress, but the knack of conveying that you like someone.
However, you are single and you’ve decided to go to pick up some girls. You’ve dressed up to impress, smell good and start to flirt with a beautiful woman from at the club you are visiting. After you use non verbal flirting techniques such as eye contact, which indicates intense emotion, or gestures which can signal interest, attraction and invitation, you see that the beautiful woman is responding to you with a big smile and perhaps start up a conversation with you.
After you compliment her, she tells you that she is married. Is this a big problem for you?
Married and flirting do not mix well. However, many people do not consider this wrong if it is just for fun. Flirting is like a game but sometimes when you return the flirt things go a little further. Often flirting is spontaneous, it just happens as a normal response to somebody you find appealing.
Married women are usually looking to find someone with whom to talk about their problems, someone like a friend to understand them. If she really wants to get into an extra- marrital relationship means that she has problems in her marriage, she is bored of her husband, or perhaps she has a husband that travels a lot and she feels lonely.
She might be looking for someone to offer her what her husband cannot. She is looking for attention, love, understanding. She wants to get much attention, time and affection as possible without having to give up anything from her life as it is. You should be prepared to be just a friend. You should tell her from the beginning that you will give her all your attention if she would give you what you want from her in return.
Usually married woman flirt, kiss and play guys all the time but without any intention of taking it further. If it happens to get with her in bed, remember that a woman who is willing to cheat is looking for excitement, drama. However, watch out not to become her toy.
There are married women who feel a need to see if they are still attractive to the opposite sex. As a result, they begin to flirt to find out if they are still attractive; they lose this feeling because their husbands do not make them feel attractive and desirable anymore.
There are lots of people who find flirting with married people to be harmless. It is at your choice if you really want to flirt with a married woman and if you can handle whatever may become of that relationship.
There are several websites that cater to married people looking to flirt and engage in extra-marital relationships – One such site that’s been in the news a lot recently for having SO many members is Ashley Madison. If this is your kind of thing – you might want to check it out – it would sure make things a whole lot easier.
