Dating someone new is all about learning each other’s quirks and uncovering any emotional baggage that is being carried. But when should you reveal a health issue like diabetes or a skin condition?
Here are a few tips on sharing those little secrets without scaring your date away:
Practice what you want to say – Before you have any talk, rehearse your speech in the mirror and then on a trusted friend. Take their feedback and adjust your talk accordingly.
Never ever tell on the first date – Sharing something so intimate and private on a first date can’t possibly have a favorable outcome
Be casual and confident – By not making a big deal of it and by sharing in a confident manner – your date will feel more confident in receiving the talk
Location, location, location – By selecting a neutral zone such as a coffee shop or snack shop, you are placing the person in a comfortable setting where they won’t feel as though they’re being held as a captive audience.
Have you ever shared a secret with your date? How did you tell them and how did it go?
