Silly Reasons for Breaking Off a Relationship

God knows I’ve had my own share of lame reasons for dumping relationships — some of the ones that might sound silliest to most are: 5. Poor manners. The dude hung over his salad like he hadn’t eaten in months and the guy at the next table was going to take his food. 4. Lip Issues – I’m not sure what it was, but the guy had this film that was constantly on his lips. […] Read the Full Article »

Do You Define Yourself by the Relationship You’re In?

I’ve encountered some people recently who are several years younger them me – who, from a distance, seem to be completely defining themselves by the relationship they are in.  I look at those people and my heart breaks.  I used to be one of them.  I know how much it hurts, how emotionally volatile it can me and how much damage it can do physically. When I was living with and engaged to the first […] Read the Full Article »

Sending Flowers From The Doghouse And Other Stupid Ideas Men Have

MidLifeBachelor.com shares a piece on when to and when not to send a woman flowers.  Listed in the ‘when TO send’ section is: Send her Flowers When you have Misbehaved, and need help emerging from the doghouse.  Flowers won’t get you out of the doghouse entirely, but sometimes they help just a little.  Remember though that if your relationship is falling apart, then don’t waste your money on flowers … flowers don’t make the man!  […] Read the Full Article »